5 rules for relations Sigmund Freyd consciously the unconscious

1. Cmelym and confident is the one who gets the conviction that he is loved.

2. We do not choose each other by chance. We meet only those who already exists in our subconscious.

3. We are never as vulnerable as when we love, never so hopelessly unhappy as when we lose the object of love or affection.

4. Why are not we fall in love every month someone new? Because when we parted, we would have deprived the particle's own heart.

5. Every person has the desire, he does not report to others, and desire, which he did not confess even to himself.

20 hazardous tasks Grigory Oster

If all books were written so exciting, do your homework it would be much more fun.

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If you quietly sneak up to his grandfather and father behind and suddenly shout "Hurrah!", The Pope will jump to 18 cm. The grandfather, in the difficult years and survived not so, jump only 5 cm.

How many centimeters above the jump dad grandfather, who had heard a sudden "Hurrah!"?

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Firefighters are taught to wear the pants in three seconds.

How much time to wear pants well-trained fire in five minutes?

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40 grandmothers went to ride on a motorcycle. In front of a motorcycle without a muffler was traveling alone most nimble grandmother, her raced three motorcycles with sidecars, each of which fits three grandmothers, and behind them caught up with the rest of motorcycles. On stragglers motorcycles sat on two grandmothers.

How many motorcycles were grandmothers?

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In a special box can be laid 68 eggs. If you knead with their feet, put 100 times more.

How knead feet eggs can be laid in the same three identical box?

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Speckled Hen laid an egg, and the mouse went and broke. Then Ryaba laid three eggs. Mouse is also the smashed. I ryaba pull their socks up and pulled down five but shameless mouse to split these.

How many eggs you could prepare your own eggs grandfather and a woman, if not spoiled your mouse?

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If a microbe, recently discovered by scientists to increase 20 million times, it can be seen with the naked eye because of its length hvatalok will be equal to 1 cm, and the width kusalok - 2 cm.

What will be the length and width of kusalok hvatalok if this microbe to increase as early as 74 times, and what will happen to the naked scientists met this microbe on a narrow path?

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Approaching the tree at a speed of 18 kilometers per hour, the cyclist Arthur wants to ride his bike beauty Katya.

How long will the Arthurian dream if left to the tree 25 meters?

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Height Katie 1 m 75 cm. Stretched out full length, she sleeps under a blanket with a length of 155 cm.

How many centimeters Katie sticking out from under the blanket?

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Tireless boy walked 3 km in 30 minutes.

For how many hours will pass 60 km the tireless boy?

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Of the two villages located at a distance of 16 km, we left at 9 o'clock to meet each other and moving at the same speed of 8 km / h the two talkative aunt.

How many hours blurted aunt met, knowing that they would part at 12 o'clock?

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Let's say that you decided to jump into the water from a height of 8 meters and flying 5 meters, changed his mind.

How many meters will you still reluctant to fly?

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Kuzma baby screaming bloody murder 5 hours a day and sleeps like a log 16 hours a day. The rest of the baby Kuzma enjoys life with all means available to it.

How many hours a day the baby Kuzma enjoying life?

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My parrot Captain Flint 1567 examined curses in different languages. 271 expletive in English, 352 in French and 127 in Spanish. The rest of the swearing parrot learned from the great and mighty Russian language.

How many personal invectives learned parrot Captain Flint of the Russian language?

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One grandfather was hunting cockroaches in the kitchen and killed five and wounded three times more. Three cockroaches grandfather fatally wounded, and they died of their wounds, while the other wounded cockroaches recovered, but are offended by my grandfather, and all went to the neighbors.

How many cockroaches went to the neighbors forever?

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World-renowned scientists invented Innocent rake, which, if they come, hit on the forehead several times, as usual, and 8 times.

How many times did you hit on the forehead with a rake, invented by scientists with a world name Innocent, if you step on them 12 times?

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Otplyakivayas from suryh plyak each hamsik shmyryaet on glyn 5 gnusikov.

How gnusikov shmyrnut on glyn 12 hamsikov, otplyakivayuschihsya from suryh plyak?

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Lac polyuchit and Zsuzsa podklyakivayutsya to him one after the other. Klyak also polyuchit but Zsuzsa do not pay any attention to him. Lac has 284 nafunyal Zsuzsa and Klyak only one, and even that some nylaya.

How many will have Klyaka zhuzh if Lac kindness otfunyaet him his 73 Zsuzsa?

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In the sky, flying 35 ducklings. 12 ducklings forward looking, and the rest look back and see the tree on which sit 27 kittens.

How many ducklings look back, smaller than kittens sitting on a tree?

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The boy writes on the fence obscenity of fifteen letters. For every three letters a boy spends 62 cm length of the fence.

Whether to put on the fence dirty word, if the entire length of the fence 3 m 16 cm?

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When Slyunik sees that someone has found PUSIC, he immediately begins to die of envy. On Thursday, in the presence of Slyunika Mryaka I found the first 6 PUSIC, and then another 12.

How many times in the day began to die of envy Slyunik?

9 books that will save any of depression

We suggest to check out books from which you will forget about all the bad and immerse yourself in the reading head:

1. Strugatsky brothers - Monday begins on Saturday

The brilliant Russian fiction book became a bestseller for many years. Young programmer Alexander Privalov, traveling by rental car in Central Russia, and suddenly falling into a strange country town where confronted with a multitude of strange and bizarre things can not be explained in terms of science.

2. John Irving - The Cider House Rules

Roman classics of American literature by John Irving - a modern saga of the family living in this absurd and meaningless world, whose members are trying, in their own way, to find harmony and a balance between the eternal and the transient.

3. Jerome K. Jerome - Three Men in a Boat

Incredible, witty, life-affirming story told by the brilliant English writer-humorist. The story of the journey of three gentlemen on the Thames is filled with interesting events, humorous collisions and comic situations of characters who always maintaining a sense of self-esteem.

4. Jenny Downham - As long as I'm alive

Sixteen-year-heroine of this book is just beginning to live, and it is so much I want to make it. So she wrote a list of all your desires and gets down to business. Not everything in it is so innocent, like her peers. But just because it is in many ways they do not like. And because she had to get it all now! "As long as I'm alive" - ​​honest, courageous and incredibly life-affirming novel.

5. Douglas Adams - The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

A motley company of free wanderers travels from star to star in search of joy, peace, and a cocktail 'Pangalaktichesky Gryzloder "- but unknown forces twice a day they impose a variety of high mission to save all living things from different villains and psychopaths. That with a sarcastic grin, then a melancholy smile Adams ponders the meaning of life, the universe and everything else.

6. Erlend Lu - is naive. Specials

Roman "is naive. Super" - his most famous book, written on behalf of the hero of thirty, experiencing "mid-life crisis" - has been translated into a dozen languages, and everywhere, including in Russia, greeted with enthusiasm. This charming and ironic, understated good thing akin to primitive, "naïve" painting - at first glance a simple and funny, Contemplate - smart and touching, and details, with a total apparent simplicity, are written accurately and skillfully.

7. Elizabeth Gilbert - Eat, Pray, love

By the age of thirty, Elizabeth Gilbert was all that may wish to modern, educated, ambitious woman - a husband, a country house, a successful career, but having gone through a divorce, depression, and another love failed, she realizes that all her previous notions of themselves were flawed .
To rediscover yourself, Elizabeth decided on a radical step: sell all that has parted with all those who loved him, and sent round the world trip. On a year. In complete loneliness...
Eat, Pray, Love - is a book about how to find joy where you do not expect, and how not to look for happiness where it is not. A-priory.

8. Fannie Flag, - Fried Green Tomatoes at the cafe "stop"

If you bring this volume to the ear, then surely you can hear someone laughing, crying, talking, the noise of the train, the rustle of leaves, the clink of forks and spoons. Listen to the sounds that make their way through the cover, and you will learn the story of a small American town, where, as elsewhere in the world, intertwined love and pain, fears and hopes, friendship and hatred. This story is told with such sincerity that will be remembered for years to come, and the Fannie Flagg novel will be one of the most beloved books.

9. Ray Bradbury - A Medicine for Melancholy

"When all is lost, hope remains," - says the hero of one of the stories of Ray Bradbury. These words could be the epigraph to the entire collection of "A Medicine for Melancholy", the pages of which there is always a place for a sad smile and a kind of miracles.

30 things you need to do is to cease to

1. Stop spending time with the wrong people.
Life is too short to spend it with the people you squeeze out all the juice. If someone wants you to be present in his life, he will take care of your comfort. You do not have to fight for a place next to him. Do not cling to those who are permanently eliminates your value. And remember that the real friends - not those who support you when you are on a horse, and so, while those who remained there when your bad deeds.

2. Stop running away from their problems.
Meet them face to face. No, it will not be easy. In the world there is no creature capable perfect punch. We are not required to instantly solve all problems. We just arranged differently. The norm for us - to grieve, to feel pain, sadness, stumble and fall. This is the meaning of life - face challenges, learn, adapt and eventually solve them. This is what makes us human.

3. Stop lying to themselves.
You can do this with someone else, but not with them. Our lives can be improved only when we allow ourselves to take risks, and the first and most difficult risk to us - it is to be honest with ourselves.

4. Stop push their own needs on the back burner.
Terrible thing to lose yourself, investing too much in love to someone else and forget about self-worth. No, do not leave the others, but also and give yourself. If there is a good time to hear yourself and do what's really important to you, this moment has come.

5. Do not try to be someone else.
One of the biggest challenges in life - is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be more intelligent, and someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Do not try to change yourself for others to enjoy. Be yourself, and those you really need, love you as you are.

6. Stop holding on to the past.
You can not start a new chapter of his life as long as you re-read the previous one.
7. Stop afraid of mistakes.
Doing something be wrong - at least ten times more effective than doing nothing. Each success bears traces of past failures, and each failure leads to success. Ultimately, you are much more you will be sorry for what you did not do, not what they had done.

8. Stop berating yourself for past mistakes.
We can not love the person, and to mourn their mistakes, but even if everything goes wrong, one thing is certain: errors help us to find the right people and the right thing. We all err, fighting and even mourn the mistakes of the past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your fight, you - here and now - have the opportunity to build up your day and your future. Whatever happens in your life, it prepares you for yet another step into the future.

9. Stop trying to buy happiness.
Much of what we want, is expensive. But the truth is that the things that really make us happy - love, laugh and work on their feelings - completely free of charge.

10. Stop looking for someone to be happy.
If you are unhappy with themselves, their personality, and the long-term relationship with someone does not make you happy. We need to create stability in his life, before sharing it with someone else.

10. Stop lounging.
Do not hesitate too long, otherwise you will create problems, even where they were not. Assess the situation - and act decisively. You can not change what refusing to fight. Any progress is fraught with risk. And it is important sequence. You can not read, did not learn of ratification.

11. Stop thinking that you are not ready.
Nobody ever feels ready to anything whatsoever to 100%. Most serious opportunities make us to go beyond our comfort zone, and then we'll really feel uncomfortable.
13. Stop being sucked into a relationship for the wrong reasons.
Relationships need to build wisely. Better to be alone than in bad company. No need to hurry with the choice. If something should happen, it will happen - at the right time with the right person, and on the best footing. Dive in love, when you are ready, not when you feel lonely.

14. Stop abandon new relationships just because the old did not exist.
In all, who would you meet, have their own goals. Someone will test you, someone - to use, and some will teach you. But most importantly, that some of them will reveal to you the best.

15. Stop competing with everyone.
Do not worry what others something you are successful. Concentrate on achieving their own daily records. Strive for success in the fight between you and himself.

16. Stop envying.
Envy - is the art of counting other people's blessings instead of their own. Ask yourself: "What do I have from what everyone wants?"

17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for myself.
Life throws the dice to move you in some important direction. You may not see or understand everything that is happening, and it can be painful. But look at those bad scenario that fell to you in the past. You will find that they often lead you to success, an important man of the soul or situation. Smile back! Let everyone know that you are much stronger today than they were yesterday.

18. Stop aggravating resentment.
Do not live life with hatred in his heart. Ultimately you hurt yourself more than the people who hate. Forgiveness does not mean "I am satisfied with everything that you did to me." It says: "I will not let what you did to me, destroy my happiness forever." Forgiveness - the proposal to let go, to find peace and release yourself. And remember that you need to forgive not only others but also themselves. If necessary, forgive yourself and move on to try the next time do better.

19. Stop allowing others to relegate you to their level.
There is no need to lower the bar to meet those who refuse to raise it.

20. Stop spending time to explain.
Your friends do not need them, and the enemies will not believe you anyway. Just do as really feel right.

21. Stop the run around.
It's time to take a deep breath comes a time when you do not have time for this. As long as you keep doing what you do, you'll get what you get. Sometimes you need to distance themselves, to see everything in its true light.

22. Stop neglect trifles.
Enjoy nonsense because one day you may look back and discover that it's been great things. The best part of your life consists of a small nameless moments spent on it to give a smile to the person who is really important to you.

23. Stop trying to do everything perfectly.
The real world does not reward perfectionists and those who seek to achieve their goal.

24. Stop follow the path of least resistance.
Life is not so simple, especially if you plan to achieve something worthwhile. Do not choose the easy way. Do something extraordinary.

25. Stop pretending that everything is fine, if it does not.
It's okay if you relax for a while. You do not have to always be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. No need to worry about what others think - weep, if you need: Tears healthful. The sooner you do it, the faster will be able to smile.

26. Stop blaming others for their problems.
Achieving your dreams depends on how you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for what happens to you, you give up responsibility and give another power over this aspect of your life.

27. Stop trying to be everything to everyone.
It is impossible, you just burn yourself. But if you give joy to one person, it can change the world. Did not the whole world, but the world - exactly. Therefore focus.

28. Stop too much to worry about.
Worry does not relieve us from tomorrow's challenges, it only saves us from today's joy. One way to check whether something is thinking - is to ask yourself the question: "Will this be important in a year? Three years? Five years? "If not, it is not worth worrying.

29. Stop focusing on the things that you do not want. Focus on what you really want. Positive thinking - one of the key moments of every great success. If you wake up every morning with the thought that in your life today, there will be something beautiful, sooner or later you will notice that they were right.

30. Stop being ungrateful.
No matter how good or bad your case, waking up every day give thanks for his life. Someone, somewhere, is now desperately fighting for her. Instead of thinking about their hardships, try to think about what you have and what others have lost.

Why do our children need to learn to perfectly?

For me, as for many other people, university studies took place with the firm conviction that the estimates are everything.

Teachers and parents are told that the high performance open to you the doors of this world. High score - is the key to a successful life.

And I blindly believed their words ...

I remember a time when I was studying bring themselves to half-dead state, just in order to get a high score on the exam.

And it seemed to me that it all makes sense, but now ... I would not want my child to study as hard as once his father.

It sounds strange, but now I will explain my position.

1. No one has ever asked me about my estimates
No employer was never interested in my marks at the university!

None of the resume I have not met the Count, "progress", but all, without exception, was a must - "experience."

Even more surprising is the fact that my computer skills and athletic achievements give me more "weight" when applying for a new job than five in the test book.

2. I forgot everything taught at the University of
My memory is arranged in an exceptional way, I forgot all the material immediately after the exam. When I first came to practice, I realized that, for all the years of study at the university, nothing I have not learned.

And although my assessment saying the opposite, in my mind was a complete mess, scraps of knowledge that I did not know how and where to apply.

As it turned out, 5 years of university studies in the fine did not give me any advantage over other "less" educated.

Ultimately, only the first 2 months of practice, I "picked up" more useful knowledge and gained more skills than in the previous 5 years the pursuit of good grades.

So was it worth so tense all these years?

3. "good marks" for my health
If someone can grasp all the "on the fly", I am not one of those people. In order to "invest" in their head knowledge, I had to "cram" the material by heart. Before the session I was at 12 to 15 hours a day. I remember, as a "disconnected" in the pairs and in public transport, because it strongly enough sleep.

Because chronic fatigue decreased my productivity, knowledge of it out of his head, his hands "were not working" day passed in a blur.

Today, I am surprised his perseverance, persistence and perseverance - through the power to force yourself to do something from which you sick. And somehow I am sure that he could not repeat the "feat" again.

4. I do not have time for other people
At the university, I had plenty of opportunities to acquire a network of useful contacts. But I did not.

Study and thought about studying occupied almost all my time, I did not have it even on the personal affairs and meet with friends.

Perhaps the most valuable opportunity offered by the university, - a network of acquaintances.

The university is - a springboard for a new relationship and validation of their ability to make new friends and keep in touch.

I noticed the following interesting fact, those people who were "the soul of the company" while studying, now well arrange their lives. Among them there are even Chief MREO, and yet he's only 30. And he couple, in fact, rarely went to ...

If I had another chance, I would have preferred less hung up on their studies and spend more time on student movements, events, parties. A "red diploma", without any regret, would trade the title of "the most sociable person."

5. Everything that brings me the money today, I learned outside the university
Effective teaching is only possible when there is interest. Modern education is the most interesting kills, scoring his head with all sorts of theoretical facts that never find their application in real life.

Sometimes, looking at the program on channel Discovery, I have an hour to learn about the world more than 15 years of study.

So I learned English in just 1.5 years, when I had an interest in him. Although "I tried" to teach him to 8 years in school and 5 years at the university.

I learned how to express their thoughts on paper than on the lessons of the Russian language, and publishing articles on his blog and websites like LifeHacker.

Here are the tips that I will give to his son when he goes to school:
The difference between 4 and 5 is so blurred that it is unlikely seriously affect the quality of your life. But to learn 5, should invest much more of their time and effort. Is the game worth the candle?
Your bills are paid your skills, rather than on the assessment of a piece of paper. Gain experience and not a mark. The more you have experience in different areas, the more you stand.
Red diploma will give you measurable benefits, which is not true of influential friends. Much attention is paid to new acquaintances and communicate with other people, they can open the door in front of you all of the world, but not your diploma.
To do what has meaning for you, not what you expect from others. Only through the interest will be possible all your great achievements.
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Life Wisdom

1. The temptation to quit will be greatest just before the victory.
2. The trick in life is to die young, but as late as possible.
3. Do not say if it does not change for the better silence.
4. The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.
5. Strong overcome the obstacle, the wise - all the way.
6. Do not be afraid to hesitate, afraid to stay.
7. stupid fool and happiness.
8. If you stumble and fall, it does not mean that you are going the wrong way.
9. The hut where laughing, richer palace where bored.
10. Always look at things from the bright side, if there are none - to rub the dark until they shine.

11. What happens, happens in time.
12. Those who point out your faults are not always your enemy; whoever speaks of your merits, not necessarily your friend.
13. Do not be afraid, do not you know - be afraid, do not learn.
14. Teachers just open the door, then you go yourself.
15. As much as no wind was blowing, the mountain will not bow before him.
16. Live, keeping the peace. The time will come and the flowers bloom themselves.
17. A friend is never without blemish; If you seek a flaw - will remain without the other.
18. Unhappiness comes in the door, which he opened.
19. No one returns from his travels as he was before.
20. Those who can blush, can not be a black heart.

21. Better is one day to be a man than a thousand days to be shadow.
22. Your home is where your thoughts are calm.
23. The man who was able to move a mountain, began by saying that dragged from place to place small stones.
24. If you make a mistake - it is better to laugh.
25. The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago. The next best time - today.

33 lesson Buddhist philosophy, which is to learn as quickly as possible 

1. Happiness - inside. We spend too much time looking for the approval and encouragement from the sidelines. And always it turns out that there are not looking. Take a look inside.

2. Be grateful for everything. For good, for bad, for the worst. Life itself - a priceless gift. A pleasure and pain - it's part of our way.

3. Change the perception - and your life will change. When you feel fear, anger, resentment, just take a look at the situation from a different angle.

4. You can not bring happiness to all, while remaining true to yourself. But it is better to take the risk and be misunderstood, than to be loved, but pretending to be something you are not really.

5. The World Around - a mirror. What we love in others - it is a reflection of what we love in yourself. What saddens us in the other - an indicator of what we need to draw attention to themselves.

6. Every person appears in our lives with a purpose. And we have to decide for themselves whether to learn the lessons that he teaches us, or not. The worse its role in our lives, the more serious lesson. Mota into their heads.

7. Believe. Just know that the most difficult times in the universe fills the back, and everything will be fine.

8. Do not take things too much to heart. The actions of other people - a reflection of what is going on in their personal lives. As a rule, you do not have anything.

9. Nature heals. A walk in the fresh air and views of the beautiful scenery miraculously able to clear your head from unnecessary thoughts back to life and cheer up.

10. Hurt people hurt people. And still love them. Although no one forbids you to love them at a distance.

11. To recover, you need to experience it. Put your fears and weakness in front of him and send them a bright beam of light, because the only way to get rid of them - is to go through them. See the truth hurts. But I swear, in the long run it's really worth.

12. Perfectionism - is an illusion. Most admittedly painful. Relax. Strive for excellence, but allow yourself to make mistakes and to be happy whatever the outcome.

13. Remove the blinders. Do not focus solely on their own goals and desires. You risk to miss the beauty of this life and the people around you. The world is amazing when you go through it with eyes wide open.

14. Celebrate your victories. Savor every, even the smallest success.

15. Know how to forgive. First of all it is necessary for you, and not to those who hurt you. By forgiving, you gain peace and freedom that you deserve. Good-bye quickly and easily.

16. We all have incredible intuition. If you stop, stand still and listen, you can hear the voice of your inner wisdom. Listen to the quiet whisper of your heart. It knows the way.

17. Let your soul sings! Be real. On Earth, there is no one the same as you. Be sincere, live, and breathe deeply, moving towards agreed goals.

18. We are all creators. Really! With proper persistence, concentration and perseverance, anything is possible. Remember that.

19. Surround yourself with people who love you and support. And they themselves love and support them. Life is too short for anything less.

20. circled by life in a free dance. If you have a big dream, follow it with passion. But gently and at a certain distance to be flexible and mobile, adjusting to the changing pace of life.

21. The more you give, the more you get. Share your wisdom, love, talent. Share easily. And you'll see how much of this life a wonderful back to you.

22. The main thing is not give yourself completely. Because if the inner bowl is empty, then there is nothing more to give. It is important to maintain a balance.

23. Say "Yes" to everything, making your eyes light up. Talk irreconcilable "No" to everything that you are not interested or that you have no time. Time - the most valuable resource that is not renewed. Spend it wisely.

24. Sometimes we outgrow friendships. This does not mean that we are bad or friends. Just our paths diverge. Keep them in your heart, but if they start to hurt or hinder you, it's time to set your distance and let your friendship.

25. To overcome their own fear - it is the most useful thing you can do for yourself. Thus you will prove to yourself that you can all. This - the generator of confidence.

26. Our body - this transport, which takes us to our dream. Love him, treated carefully and thoughtfully, if you want to feel refreshed and energetic. But do not get hung up. Appearance subjective and eventually changed anyway. Feel comfortable and comfortable in his own body - that's what is most important.

27. How often can speak and show someone you love them. That does not happen too much. Your time, the presence of a number of love and sincere concern for them - the best gift.

28. Live in the present. This is the only thing that we have now. Learn from the mistakes of the past and enjoy the pleasant memories, but do not cling to them and do not let them chase you. Dream about the future, but without fanaticism and obsession. Enjoy the moment.

29. Life - is a series of ups and downs. To unleash the full potential, we need something, and more. Just hold on and enjoy the ride stronger.

30. We are all - one big human family. None of us are no better and no worse than others. Just at some point in their lives, we know what to do. The next time it will be someone else.

31. Be thankful every day for all that you have in life. So you create a space around themselves for even greater abundance, attracting happiness, love, health and prosperity.

32. Your definition of happiness differs from the others. What works for you does not necessarily work for others. You are not the judge of the world, to judge the decision taken by the life of each person. According to one well-known biblical postulate: "Judge not, that ye be not judged."

33. You are the guru himself. Most of his life, we are told what to do, how to think, what is good and how to succeed. You should not believe all this unconditionally. Think for themselves. Once you start to follow your own intuition, you feel ridiculously happy.