7 of the rules of psychology, who should know

1. The right mirror.
People around me - my mirrors. They reflect my own personality characteristics, often not perceived by me. For example, if someone is rude to me, then I want to, I can afford. If someone has time and again deceive me, then I have a penchant to believe anyone. So do not take offense at anyone.

2. The right to choose.
I realize that everything that happens in my life - is the result of my own choosing. And if today I am dealing with a boring person, I do that and I'm just as boring and nerdy people? Not bad and evil men - there are unhappy. If I rake their problems, then I like it. So, no one to make a complaint. I myself have reason for everything that happens to me. The authors and the creator of your destiny - we do.

3. Rule errors.
I agree with what could be wrong. Not always my opinion or my actions other people have to be considered correct. The real world is not just black and white, there is light and dark gray and white. I'm not ideal, I'm a good person and have a right to make mistakes. The main thing - to be able to recognize it and to correct time.

4. The rule matches.
I have exactly that, and just enough so that I fit they deserve, no more, no less, whether it concerns relations with people, work or money. If I can not love a person to the fullest, it is ridiculous to demand that this man loved me. So all my claims are meaningless. And yet, when I decide to change - change and the people around me (for the better).

5. Rule Dependencies.
I have no one should. I can selflessly help anyone who can not. And it is a joy. To be good, you have to be strong. To be strong, we must believe that I still can. And I believe it! But you have to and be able to say "NO!"

6. The right to attend.
I live here and seychas.Proshlogo not, because every next moment comes now. There is no future, because it is not yet. Attachment to the past leads to depression, anxiety about the future gives rise to concern. As I live in the present, I insisted. There is a reason to rejoice.

7. Rights of optimism.
While we criticize life, she passes by. The eyes see, the legs go, the ears hear, the heart works, the soul rejoices. My fitness - sunny summer, meadow and river. As I move until the wind blew the skin - I live. When I'm watching TV, lying on the couch, or chat with my friends in the internet - I'm not in it, and in the hereafter.