Seven domestic laws to gain harmony

1. "Thoughts are material"

All what we are - the result of what we think. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain it pursues. If a man speaks or acts with pure intentions, followed by happiness, like a shadow, he will never leave. Buddha said: "Our consciousness - that is all. You become what you think. " James Allen said, "Man - the brain." To live correctly, you must fill your mind right thoughts. Your thinking determines the action; your actions determine the outcome. Right thinking will give anything you want; wrong thinking - an evil that eventually destroy you.

2. "Start small - this is normal"

"The jug is filled slowly, drop by drop."
Ralph Waldo Emerson said: "Each artist was once an amateur." We all start out small, do not neglect small. If you are consistent and patient, you will succeed! No one can succeed in just one night: Success comes to those who are willing to start small and work hard until the jug is full.

3. "simple"

Pent-up anger in itself, is like to grab a hot coal with the intent to throw it in someone else; it will burn you. When you release those who are imprisoned by unforgiveness, you are released from the prison itself. You will not be able to suppress the one without suppressing and myself too. Learn to forgive. Learn to forgive quickly.

4. "Your actions are important"

No matter how many commandments you may have read, how much would you not say that they will mean, if you do not follow them?
They say: "The words are worth nothing," and it is. To grow, you have to act; to develop rapidly, we must act each day. Glory will not fall on your head! Thank for everyone, but know it will be only those who are constantly active.

5. "Try to understand"

Arguing with the present we are experiencing anger, we have ceased to fight for the truth, we began to fight only for themselves. Stephen Covey said, "First, try to understand, and only then try to understand you." Easy to say but hard to do; you should make every effort to understand the point of view of the "other" person. When you feel that your anger is overwhelming, destroy it.
Listen to others, understand their point of view, and you will have peace of mind. More focus on how to be happy than to be right.

6. "Defeat yourself"

It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours, it you can not take neither angels nor demons, neither heaven nor hell. Whoever wins himself is stronger than any ruler. In order to defeat yourself, you need to win your mind. You have to control your thoughts. They should not rage like waves of the sea. You might think: "I can not control my thoughts. The idea comes when she wants. " You can not ban a bird fly over you, but, of course, you can prevent it to build a nest on your head. Banish the thought that do not meet the principles of life, for which you want to live. Buddha said, "No enemy or foe, namely human consciousness luring him to the curve track." But do not beat yourself tortures and love.

7. "Live in Harmony"
Harmony comes from within. Do not look for it outside. Do not look outside of what can only be in your heart. Often we can look outside, only to distract themselves from the true reality. The truth is that harmony can only be found within ourselves. Harmony is not a new job, not a new car or a new marriage. Harmony - a new opportunity, and they begin to you.