The evolution of the marital relationship
☑1. phase - idealization.
The continuation phase is about 12-18 months.
At this point, everything seems perfect man: appearance, voice, even character flaws seem surprising. The man seemed in a state of intoxication. During this period, in any case should not take any serious decisions as pass some time and appear in front of you a real person with its flaws and everything will fall into place.
☑2. phase - satiety
This is the first crisis, when people live together and dolozhny User Agreement about what rules they will live, and what they expect from each other, it may be that people see life together in different ways and have different values, which can be difficult to take a partner.
The storm of feelings and emotions subside, you start to soberly assess the pros and cons of your partner. You start to get used to each other, behave more natural and relaxed.
☑3. phase - differences
This phase is not inevitably for any long-term relationship. In the phase difference starts a quarrel, you seem to concentrate solely on the shortcomings of each other. The easiest and at the same time, the worst way - is the separation or divorce. What's bad about it? You give up the time-tested relations and, moreover, will enter again with another partner in the relationship, and everything will start first, with the first phase.
☑4. Recover phase relationship
Quarrels and spats between the partners happen, but they do not carry a fatal character, because both know that the quarrel is over, and the relationship will be restored again. If the partners make efforts for the development of patience, the patience with them comes wisdom. It's the law of nature. So, at this stage, partners acquire wisdom.
☑5. phase - debt or respect. It is also the first stage of love!
In fact, to this love was not. At this stage, each partner begins to think not about what it should be, and that he has to do for your loved one. Understanding their responsibilities is developing human.
☑6. phase - friendship
You really have become near and dear to each other. Do you trust each other as the closest friends. Friendship - is a serious preparation for love.
☑7. phase-love
True love - it is not easy. To it goes a very long time. Love trained through various life situations in the long term and close relationship. True love - this is not something that suddenly falls down, as is commonly believed. For real, adult love a person matures, abandoning selfishness and prejudice.
People choose their husband or wife. But to experience the true love in family life, should be well acquainted with each other, then friends, and then, and love. Many couples find love the first phase. But as soon as the romance leaves and pink glasses fall off, starting the first difficulty, the first test of the relationship. And someone said - love has passed.
The dedication and patience - the main qualities of love. If you have decided that your relationship "love is over", rest assured that it has not yet started
☑1. phase - idealization.
The continuation phase is about 12-18 months.
At this point, everything seems perfect man: appearance, voice, even character flaws seem surprising. The man seemed in a state of intoxication. During this period, in any case should not take any serious decisions as pass some time and appear in front of you a real person with its flaws and everything will fall into place.
☑2. phase - satiety
This is the first crisis, when people live together and dolozhny User Agreement about what rules they will live, and what they expect from each other, it may be that people see life together in different ways and have different values, which can be difficult to take a partner.
The storm of feelings and emotions subside, you start to soberly assess the pros and cons of your partner. You start to get used to each other, behave more natural and relaxed.
☑3. phase - differences
This phase is not inevitably for any long-term relationship. In the phase difference starts a quarrel, you seem to concentrate solely on the shortcomings of each other. The easiest and at the same time, the worst way - is the separation or divorce. What's bad about it? You give up the time-tested relations and, moreover, will enter again with another partner in the relationship, and everything will start first, with the first phase.
☑4. Recover phase relationship
Quarrels and spats between the partners happen, but they do not carry a fatal character, because both know that the quarrel is over, and the relationship will be restored again. If the partners make efforts for the development of patience, the patience with them comes wisdom. It's the law of nature. So, at this stage, partners acquire wisdom.
☑5. phase - debt or respect. It is also the first stage of love!
In fact, to this love was not. At this stage, each partner begins to think not about what it should be, and that he has to do for your loved one. Understanding their responsibilities is developing human.
☑6. phase - friendship
You really have become near and dear to each other. Do you trust each other as the closest friends. Friendship - is a serious preparation for love.
☑7. phase-love
True love - it is not easy. To it goes a very long time. Love trained through various life situations in the long term and close relationship. True love - this is not something that suddenly falls down, as is commonly believed. For real, adult love a person matures, abandoning selfishness and prejudice.
People choose their husband or wife. But to experience the true love in family life, should be well acquainted with each other, then friends, and then, and love. Many couples find love the first phase. But as soon as the romance leaves and pink glasses fall off, starting the first difficulty, the first test of the relationship. And someone said - love has passed.
The dedication and patience - the main qualities of love. If you have decided that your relationship "love is over", rest assured that it has not yet started
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